(Former Home Page Courtesy of S. Berliner, III, continued on MUUF Continuation Page)
"Former" because the Fellowship now has its own Website:
(15 Jun 2011)
http://muttontownfellowship.org/
to which you should repair forthwith.
[This page will NOT be maintained.]
On the MUUF Continuation Page:
The Free Mind
The Free Church
Previous Services
MUUF Sermon Reviews for 2007:
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MUUF Sermon Reviews for 2006:
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MUUF Sermon Reviews for 2005:
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[While MUUF's legal address is 6090 North Hempstead Turnpike, Muttowntown,
New York, do NOT look for any such nor use it for mailing.]


(Photo by and © 1999 S. Berliner, III - 07 Nov 99)
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Mailing Address:
[They are NOT in East Norwich;
P. O. Box 123
East Norwich, New York 11732
do NOT look for us there!
They are in MUTTONTOWN!
See directions above.]
The Muttontown Unitarian Universalist Fellowship is a member church of the
Unitarian Universalist Association, a free affiliation of churches covenanted to
affirm and promote the inherent worth and dignity of every person and to
respect the interdependent web of all existence, of which we are a part.
(based on the UUA
Statement of Principles and Purposes.)
They do not proselytize, but when they say "All are welcome", they mean it! Go test them.
They believe that revelation is NOT sealed.

(Illustration by and © S. Berliner, III - all rights reserved)
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Summer services, which end on (or about) August 30th,
Weather permitting, they meet out on their lovely grounds - in the shade!
They do not have a full-time minister; they normally have a regular minister part-time
and guest ministers or other speakers, giving a variety of viewpoints. Most
recently, they were served part-time by a graduated student UU minister of great skill
and promise, Don Erickson and by several UU ministerial students; come by on
a Sunday morning and enjoy the service, hospitality, and the discussion circle that
follows.
Not being able to engage an ordained Unitarian Universalist minister, they were
enjoying the services of UU guest minister Rev. Lilia Cuervo and UU chaplain Hollis Huston
and several UU graduate and student ministers and a rotation of skilled interfaith
ministers, many of whom are real crackerjacks and most-sympathetic to their somewhat-casual
style and varied needs. Go on in and see for yourself; you may well be very
pleasantly surprised.
Their last part-time regular minister was, until the end of June 2000,
Hollis Huston's sermons (or variants thereof) are posted on his blog at
http://nextcircle.blogspot.com/.
Here is where the minister officiates (the front of the sanctuary/worship room),
An earlier MUUF minister popped out of the pages of NEWSDAY on Sunday morning,
14 Oct 01; on page A45, there was the Rev. Capt. Christopher J. McMahon smiling out
at us! Chris served us ca. 1955, was part-time minister out at the
Unitarian Universalist
Congregation of the South Fork in Water Mill, and is now Consulting Minister at
the UU Fellowship of Bellport, while serving
full-time at his Alma Mater, the U. S. Merchant Marine
Academy at Kings Point, as head of the Global Maritime and Transportation School
(GMATS). The article
was occasioned by his appointment as Special Assistant to Transportation Secretary
Norman Mineta for Maritime Security. Can't think of a better man for the job!
In line with their belief that revelation is not sealed, you might like the suggestion by the
Rev. Dr. Galen Guengerich (of All Souls Church in NYC) that we should keep our theology in a
loose-leaf notebook!
are somewhat different than their customary services;
they are shorter and less formal.
the Rev. Ronald Wayne Sala; [Ron has his own Web site:
http://home.earthlink.net/~rsala,
where he has the texts of his sermons.]
Ron was next the Interim Minister at the
UU Fellowship of Northern Westchester
in Mt. Kisco, New York,
but has moved on to The Unitarian Universalist Society
in Stamford, Connecticut.
and the view from the side (south) window,
with those hand-hewn beams overhead:
(Photos by and © 1999 S. Berliner, III - 07 Nov 99)
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Guest Interfaith Minister Rev. Mary Willams introduced "Enter In Silence, Leave in Joy"
on October 29 and Nov. 4, 2006; there was a meditation period prior to the Fellowship service,
beginning at 10:15. Parishioners were asked to enter in silence and join us then.
Those who preferred to join the group at 10:30, were requested to keep socializing and
conversations outside and to enter as quietly as possible.
(09 Aug 09)
SCHEDULE of Upcoming SERVICES and EVENTS
-
NO LONGER KEPT CURRENT!
SUNDAY SERVICES - 10:30 A.M.
The Main Event
* - Visiting UU Minister or Guest UU Speaker.
n - Visiting Minister or Guest Speaker.
# - MUUF Parishioner.
December 2009
06 Dec - Rev. Sandra Wintern
13 Dec - Frank Skalan (lay speaker)
(preceded by Board meeting - all are welcome)
20 Dec - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain) [cancelled due to snow]
25 Dec - Rev. Lilia Cuervo* (Affiliate Minister at UU Cong. at Shelter Rock)
10:30AM - casual Christmas Candlelight
Service
27 Dec - Norman Roscoe* (Humanist, member - UU Fell. of Bellport)
November 2009
01 Nov - Norman Roscoe* (Humanist, member - UU Fell. of Bellport)
08 Nov - Anne Bancroft* (Intern Minister at UU Cong. at Shelter Rock) -
Forgive It Foreward - a spiritual practice for the holiday season
15 Nov - Rev. Sandra Wintern
22 Nov - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain) - Magnificat (Advent)
(preceded by Board meeting - all are welcome)
29 Nov - Norman Roscoe* (Humanist, member - UU Fell. of Bellport)
October 2009
04 Oct - Frank Skalan (lay speaker)
11 Oct - Rev. Sandra Olsenn {former MUUF minister} "On Going Home" (Mark 6:1-13)
(preceded by Board meeting - all are welcome)
18 Oct - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain) - Prayer
25 Oct - Rev. Lilia Cuervo* (Affiliate Minister at UU Cong. at Shelter Rock)
Day of the Dead (Dia del Muerte) - please bring a photo or small memento of a lost one
(Rev. Sandra Wintern is unable to serve).
September 2009
06 Sep - S. Berliner, III # - On the 48th annual UU General Assembly
13 Sep - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain)
(preceded by Board meeting - all are welcome)
20 Sep - Rev. Sandra Wintern
27 Sep - S. Berliner, III # (substituting) - Kindness
August 2009
02 Aug - Howard Graber #
09 Aug - Congregational Meeting (all welcome)
16 Aug - S. (Sam) Berliner, III# - Generosity
23 Aug - S. (Sam) Berliner, III# - Singing
30 Aug - Rev. Lilia Cuervo* (Affiliate Minister at UU Cong. at Shelter Rock) -
Theodore Parker through the eyes of his loving wife, Lydia Dodge Cabot, a portrayal.
July 2009
05 Jul - {tbs}
12 Jul - {tbs}
19 Jul - {tbs}
26 Jul - {tbs}
June 2009
07 Jun - Rev. Lilia Cuervo* (Affiliate Minister at UU Cong. at Shelter Rock)
14 Jun - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain)
21 Jun - Rev. Sandra Wintern
28 - Congregational Brunch (all are welcome)
May 2009
03 - Joan Schultz#
10 - Rev. Lilia Cuervo* (Affiliate Minister at UU Cong. at Shelter Rock)
17 - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain)
24 - Frank Skalan (lay speaker)
31 - Norman Roscoe* (Humanist, member - UU Fell. of Bellport)
April 2009
05 - Rev. Sandra Wintern
12 - Rev. Lilia Cuervo* (Affiliate Minister at UU Cong. at Shelter Rock)
(preceded by Board meeting - all are welcome)
19 - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain)
26 - Frank Skalan (lay speaker)
March 2009
01 - Rev. Sandra Wintern
22 - S. (Sam) Berliner, III# (subst. for Rev. Lilia Cuervo)
(preceded by Board meeting - all are welcome)
15 - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain)
22 - Frank Skalan (lay speaker)
29 - Debra Goyenan (lay speaker)
February 2009
01 - Rev. Sandra Wintern
08 - Rev. Lilia Cuervo* (Affiliate Minister at UU Cong. at Shelter Rock)
(preceded by Board meeting - all are welcome)
15 - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain)
22 - Debra Goyenan (lay speaker)
January 2009
04 - Rev. Sandra Wintern
11 - Rev. Lilia Cuervo* (Affiliate Minister at UU Cong. at Shelter Rock)
(preceded by Board meeting - all are welcome)
18 - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain)
25 - Rev. Barbara Stoutn
- - -* - - -
December 2008
07 - Rev. Sandra Wintern
14 - Norman Roscoe* (Humanist, member - UU Fell. of Bellport)
(preceded by Board meeting - all are welcome)
21 - Rev. Lilia Cuervo* (Affiliate Minister at UU Cong. at Shelter Rock)
(with Evensong)
28 - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain)
November 2008
02 - Rev. Sandra Wintern
09 - Rev. Lilia Cuervo* (Affiliate Minister at UU Cong. at Shelter Rock)
(with Evensong)
(preceded by Board meeting - all are welcome)
16 - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain)
23 - Norman Roscoe* (Humanist, member - UU Fell. of Bellport)
30 - Debra Goyenan (lay speaker)
October 2008
05 - Rev. Sandra Wintern
12 - Rev. Lilia Cuervo* (Affiliate Minister at UU Cong. at Shelter Rock)
(with Evensong)
(preceded by Board meeting - all are welcome)
19 - Rev. Sandra Olsenn {former MUUF minister}
26 - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain)
September 2008
07 - Rev. Sandra Wintern
14 - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain)
21 - Frank Skalan (lay speaker)
28 - Debra Goyenan (lay speaker)

(Photos by and © 1999 S. Berliner, III - 07 Nov 99)
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August 2008
03 Aug - {tba}
10 Aug - {tba}
17 Aug - {tba}
24 Aug - {tba}
31 Aug - Frank Oliva# (MUUF President)
July 2008
06 Jul - Howard Grabern (congregant)
13 Jul - {tba}
20 Jul - Robyn Bellospiriton (congregant)
27 Jul - {tba}
June 2008
01 Jun - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain)
08 Jun - Rev. Sandra Wintern
15 Jun - Rev. Lilia Cuervo* (Affiliate Minister at UU Cong. at Shelter Rock)
(with Evensong)
22 Jun - Debra Goyenan (lay speaker)
29 Jun - Picnic Brunch
May 2008
04 May - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain)
11 May - Rev. Sandra Wintern
18 May - Rev. Lilia Cuervo* (Affiliate Minister at UU Cong. at Shelter Rock)
(with Evensong)
25 May - S. (Sam) Berliner, III#
April 2008
06 Apr - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain)
13 Apr - Rev. Sandra Wintern
20 Apr - Rev. Lilia Cuervo* (Affiliate Minister at UU Cong. at Shelter Rock)
(with Evensong)
27 Apr - Rev. Greg Geiger*
March 2008
02 Mar - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain)
09 Mar - Rev. Sandra Wintern (preceded by Board meeting)
16 Mar - Rev. Lilia Cuervo* (Affiliate Minister at UU Cong. at Shelter Rock)
(with Evensong)
23 Mar - Norman Roscoe* (Humanist, member - UU Fell. of Bellport)
30 Mar - Rev. Greg Geiger*
February 2008
03 Feb - Rev. Barbara Stoutn
10 Feb - Rev. Sandra Wintern
17 Feb - Debra Goyenan (lay speaker)
24 Feb - Rev. Greg Geiger*
January 2008
06 Jan - Rev. Lilia Cuervo* (Affiliate Minister at UU Cong. at Shelter Rock)
(with Evensong)
13 Jan - Rev. Sandra Wintern
20 Jan - Hollis Huston* (UU Chaplain)
27 Jan - Lissa Gundlach* (UU Ministerial Student)
Previous services are listed on the MUUF
Continuation Page, et seq.
OTHER HAPPENINGS
@ - event sponsored by Muttontown UU Fellowship
° - outside organization using facility.
05 Feb 2010 meeting was cancelled due to expected blizzard
(which, happily, never materialized here).
(07 Feb 10)
[Notes: - a) The Singles Group no longer meets on Third Fridays and b) activities led by
Rev. Marcia Gracen are no longer held at MUUF; call 516-433-3482.]
(10 Feb 08)
(first verse of a song by Carolyn McDade, 1981, that has become,
by popular acclaim, the UU "denominational anthem".)
The Muttontown Unitarian Universalist Fellowship is a member of the Unitarian Universalist Association and the Metro New York District of the UUA. While non-creedal and having complete congregational polity, we do subscribe to the Purposes and Principles of the UUA.
They are a small, friendly, tolerant, lively, intellectually- and spiritually-nurturing community. These qualities reflect the beautiful pastoral setting of their 200 year old fellowship house, looking out on two and a half acres of fields and trees.
They have a meeting room and a coffee room, divided by back-to-back 19th century
fireplaces, and enhanced by hand-hewn chestnut beams, as well as several smaller
meeting rooms. Their full kitchen serves them well for brunches, dinners, and
barbeques held in the fellowship room and on their brick patio and sweeping lawns.
The facilities can be made available for Unitarian Universalist and personal functions,
such as weddings, funerals, and memorial services.
* Speakers * Fellowship
* Discussions * Fairs
* Workshops * Picnics
* Classes * Barbeques
* Concerts * Special Events
UU Minister Rev. Lilia Cuervo used this old sign at their back entrance as a lead-in to her sermon on
stewardship on 03 Jan 2010:
(03 Jan 09)

* This building, formerly the Thompson-Layton house, was built
somewhere between 1766 and 1797, and stands on 2.9 acres; it
is one of the oldest buildings in this part of Long Island.
* The present structure combines three different houses, the easternmost
of which was an original toll house for the North Hempstead Turnpike
(Northern Boulevard/Route 25A), and was located on the north side of
(across) the highway as of an 1873 map. Another may have been the
gate house and the third the pump house of the original estate.
* Beams in the meeting room, under the white paint, are believed to be
chestnut. Notice the very low ceiling in this room. Notice that they
are hand hewn - see the marks of the adze and think of the person who
made them - and also that two beams appear to be later replacements.
* If you go into the basement under the meeting room (from outside and be
sure to duck as you enter), you will see what looks like the original
planking, over which oak floors were laid at a later date.
* In the basement are the original walls, about 5' to 6' high (1.5 to
1.8m - watch out for your head on the beams!). The wall is made up of
stones, laid one on top of another.
* Under the coffee room floor, the foundation wall sits only a few feet
down, on the dirt ground, and this seems to be carried through under
the kitchen and the room off the kitchen (now the office).
* The steep staircase going up from the kitchen indicates considerable
antiquity as did a former original staircase from the coffee room.
* A chimney protrudes through the roof in the kitchen area; it is now
used to vent heat from the two wall ovens.
* A pair of back-to-back fireplaces, facing inside both the coffee room
and the meeting room, were the original heating system. Both
fireplaces are now closed off and there is an oil burner under the
worship hall.
* Notice the similar architecture and fence of our property compared
with the two adjacent homes directly to the east of us. A Mr. Riley
lived there; he spoke to us around 1985 or so and remembered being
with his grandfather in the Fellowship house.
* The coffee room was reconstructed between March and August of 1983
due to the sinking of the foundation. A sub-basement was added plus
new wiring, required by the town, under the floor and kitchen areas.
At this time a steep staircase then located to the north (toward 25A)
of the fireplace in the coffee room was removed.
* Famed socialite Brenda Frazier and her friend "Shipwreck" Kelly lived
here in the 40's# in the brick manor house south of our back road.
The Calumet (previously Gamboling) Farms facility across our side road
to the southwest was their stables. We took title from an Albert C.
Nolte, Jr., on April 26, 1963, having previously met at members'
private homes, the Neighborhood House of the Glen Cove YMCA, the
Grenville Baker Boys' Club and the Lower School of the Friends Academy,
both in Locust Valley, and lastly at Norway Hall in Glen Head.
* The Fellowship was founded in 1957 as the "The Unitarian Fellowship of
Glen Cove". We incorporated and changed our name to "The Unitarian
Fellowship at Muttontown" in 1961. We became "The Muttontown Unitarian
Universalist Fellowship" in 1987, thus reflecting the inclusiveness of
the Unitarian Universalist Association.
From rough notes by Roy Sanger - Oct 87
{Edited by Sam Berliner, III - Oct 93; revised Dec 97,
see 26 Sep 75 Oyster Bay Guardian)
# - As of 19 Jun 98, a letter from one Trixie Taylor to the Oyster Bay FREEHOLDER (in the spring 1998 issue) states that Brenda Frazier was only born in the early '20s and so could not have known Kelly until '39 or '40 and that she was very prominent in the '40s and '50s! (Oh, 'tis true, 'tis true!) This history was published in the Winter 1998 issue with the erroneous dating, "20's".
Incidentally, Kelly (described as "the late" in an article ca. Jun 98) was a friend of Jock Whitney, who knew him as the football hero and Wall Streeter John "Shipwreck" Kelly, described as married to "deb-of-the-century" Brenda Frazier. Better and better - "ya gotta be a football hero" - Kelly is immortalized by the University of Kentucky's "Individual Old-Time Records (1891-1945)" for Most Yards Rushing, Game - 280 - Shipwreck Kelly vs. Maryville, 1930. Worser and worser - "Shipwreck" Kelly (1885-1952) was famous for flagpole sitting for long periods of time; he set many flagpole-sitting records. He sat for 49 days on one flagpole. He once estimated that he spent a total of over 20,000 hours sitting on flagpoles. Flagpole sitting was a craze started in Baltimore, Maryland, in 1929. Happily, for us, it appears that this Kelly was Alvin "Shipwreck" Kelly - who set the world's record (seven weeks) for pole sitting (at Atlantic City's Steel Pier).
- This partnership is in abeyance;

[newer image now (10 Feb 00) courtesy of the Magyarországi Unitárius
Egyház
(The Hungarian Unitarian Church)]
This emblem, the "Címer", popular in Hungarian and Transylvanian Unitarian churches
and the device of the Unitarian denominations in both areas, and which appears on
the beautiful, hand-carved, wood plaque sent to us from Bordos, depicts a dove
encircled by a serpent - "be a peaceful as the dove and as cunning as the serpent",
and often bears, or is accompanied by, the motto
(photo 24 Nov 99 by and © 1999 S. Berliner, III - All Rights Reserved)
The UUA has a Partner Church Program with the Magyar(Hungarian)-speaking Unitarian churches in Transylvania (Erdély in Magyar or Siebenbürgen in German) in Romania; Muttontown is partnered with Bordos, a tiny church in a tiny mountain community. You may also find more on Bordos and the other Erdélyi churches on SB,III's Partner Church page.
EMERGENCY! One of MUUF's parishioners pointed out that, while we all acknowledge the "Interdependent Web of all Existence", nowhere do we give its URL!
If you enjoy history, especially that of Long Island, visit:
The Oyster Bay Historical Society
site.
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